My Intentional Life Plan (ILP)
From: Year 2019 to 2024
From: Age 57 to 62
OWNER OF MY INTENTIONAL LIFE PLAN (ILP):
NAME: LRL Current Age: 57
SPOUSE / PARTNER to be included in the ILP:
NAME: HL Current Age: 57
CHILDREN to be included in the ILP:
NAME: CELE Current Age: 35
NAME: AKLT Current Age: 29
NAME: SCRL Current Age: 27
SIGNIFICANT OTHERS to be included in the ILP:
NAME: Immediate families (uncles and aunties) (cousins , nephews and nieces) Current Age: varying ages
NAME: Extended families (in-laws) Current Age: varying ages
NAME: Friends Current Age: varying ages
Answer the following questions as indicated:
IF I WERE TO DIE AT 62 YEARS OLD (AGE) OR IN May 7, 2024 (YEAR),
- WHAT ARE THE LEGACIES THAT WANT TO LEAVE BEHIND FOR MY FAMILY AND FOR MY COMMUNITY?
*Exemplary wife
*Exemplary mother and grandmother
- WHAT WILL I DO FOR MY SPOUSE / PARTNER?
*Will assist and support him in taking care of our grandchildren.
- WHAT WILL I DO FOR MY CHILDREN?
*CELE – to assist and guide her in building her own family.
*AKLT – to assist and guide her in building her own family.
*SCRL – to support her in achieving her life goals.
- WHAT WILL I DO FOR MY SIGNIFICANT OTHERS?
*to inspire them to have a positive outlook in life.
- WHAT WILL I DO FOR MYSELF?
*Family bonding – enjoying my life with my grandchildren
– travel with my family.
- Spending quality time with my whole family every weekend (hearing masses, eating out, malling, outdoor picnic etc.)
*Always wear a smile.
*Attracts positive vibes.
- WHAT WILL I DO TO PREPARE FOR A HAPPY DEATH (CONTENTED AND READY TO LEAVE THIS EARTH)?
*Forgive and ask for forgiveness
*Be thankful for all the blessings
*Endorse material possessions
*Inform my family as to now I want to be treated when I am near death and how to deal things accordingly after I die.
*Confessions
*Maximize family bonding.
IF I HAVE MORE OR LESS 6 MONTHS; 1 YEAR; 2 YEARS; OR 3 YEARS TO LIVE BASED ON ACTUARIAL LIFE SPAN OF THE MEDICAL CONDITION THAT YOU HAVE, I WILL:
- Try my best to stay alive and productive up to my last moment on earth (specify further such as how).
- Make peace with God (specify further such as making a confession, asking your Creator for forgiveness, etc. and with a timeline or deadline).
- Make peace with everybody (specify further such as forgiving people who have hurt you, asking forgiveness to persons who you have hurt, and with a timeline or deadline).
- Endorse my material possessions (specify further such as properties and money, to whom, etc. with a timeline or deadline).
- Make clutter management of my stuff (specify further such as what and where, with a timeline or deadline).
- Make an advance directive on how my family or guardian will manage me when I am near death and after I die.
- Bond or maximize bonding with my family and /or significant others (specify further such as who and how and with a timeline or deadline).
- Enjoy myself to the maximum or fullest (specify further such as how).
IF I HAVE NO MEDICAL CONDITION YET AND CAN TARGET 70 YEARS, I WILL MAKE A PLAN AND IMPLEMENT IT TO THE LETTER ON HOW TO:
- Stay alive and not crippled up to 70 years
- Be happy, contented, productive and enjoying every day.
- To bond with and assist my spouse / partner; children; and significant others in making an Intentional Life Plan to be able to reach 70 years old at least and living life to the fullest with contentment.
GOALS TO CONSIDER:
Building legacies goal
Contentment goal
Enjoyment goal (sensual, ego, accomplishment and appreciation pleasure)
God or Creator goal
Financial goal
Career goal
Professional goal
Social and relationship goal
Family goal
Health goal
Children goal
Spouse goal
Significant others goal
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ROJoson Notes on Life 