In 2015, I reminded myself to slow down.
Every year, after I have reached 65 years old, the year of my “retirement,” I have been reminding myself to slow down.
Today, February 18, 2018, I am reminding myself to slow down again.
Note: this has to be tied up with reminders on contentment and doing things what matters most in the remaining years of my life.
Reminders on Contentment
Determine the end-points in all the programs and projects you want to do in your life that will be considered as criteria for “contented enough.” After you have achieved the end-points, retire completely and just cherish the memories of what you have done.
ROJoson – January 23, 2015
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A Period of Contentment
An Hour of Contentment
A Few Minutes of Contentment
A Few Seconds of Contentment
A Moment of Contentment
Every day we should have a moment of contentment; a few seconds, a few minutes, an hour. As much as possible, all these moments should add up to a longer period of contentment, such as after completion of a program or project, at time of retirement, and at time of death.
Contentment means the following:
• Peace and relaxation of mind.
• No rat race.
• No such sayings that I have too much to do; too many responsibilities to shoulder; too many deadlines to meet; too many achievements to be achieved; too many money to earned and to be saved; too many promotions to be earned; too many calls to be made; too many letters to be written; etc.
• Strivings for more in anything have ceased.
• No thinking that if I’m content, people might think I have lost my ambition.
• Saying such things as good-bye schedule; see you later, routine; come back tomorrow, deadlines.
ROJoson – February 3, 2015
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I will not strive for external awards or recognition for personal excellence anymore. I have enough. I have done enough contribution on Education for Health Development in the Philippines. I will just cherish the memories of what I have done.
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I will not compete with anybody anymore. I am retired. I will slow down. I will be contented with what I have done, what I have gained, and what I will do in my own controlled pace.
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“to leave the world a little better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is the meaning of success.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson
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I will surrender things of the youth.
I won’t be able to do all types of exercises anymore.
I won’t be able to do all types of surgical operations anymore.
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I won’t be able to cure everybody.
I can still treat many patients.
I can offer comfort to all patients coming to see me at all times.
These are my limitations in medical practice and I have to accept them to be contented.
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I will be contented with material things.
I don’t need much anymore, just maintaining shelter; nutrition; car; and computer system to do my blogging for Education for Health Development in the Philippines – which I will do for the rest of my life (while I am still not mentally crippled).
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I will be contented with 3 major activities per day. These major activities will be a combination of the any of the following:
- Medical practice – clinics, operations, writings
- Medical education – conferences, teachings, meetings, writings
- Hospital administration – meetings, writings, teachings
- Public health education – writings, lectures
- Family bonding
- Exercise-relaxation
- Social networking
Formulated: January 13, 2013
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What I want to focus on for the next five years but at a controlled and in my own pace:
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Develop learning modules for hospitals.
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Develop learning modules for medical and health administration schools.
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Blog in WordPress and Facebook (Education for Health Development in the Philippines)
March 7, 2017
What I want to focus on for the next five years (2018 / 2019 – 2024) but at a controlled and in my own pace:
– 100-Bed Level 2, Private General Hospital Design and Operations Manual
– Medical Curriculum Enhancement
– Options for Medical Management – Diagnostic and Treatment Procedures
– Clinical ResearchThese 4 projects are (as published in https://rojoson.wordpress.com/2017/12/31/2018-life-plan):
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Blog in WordPress and Facebook (Education for Health Development in the Philippines)
Reminder on Slow Down (to myself again) – 18feb22
Intentional slow down – intentional reduction in activities that tend to cause stress such as turning down speaking engagement and saying NO to rat race – being contented with what I have – just doing things which can create my own sense of happiness, satisfaction and productivity and AT MY OWN CONTROLLED PACE.